The
First Step
The
first thing you can do is to change your negative responses
when dealing with people. For example: if someone asks
you; "How are you." Instead of responding by
saying: "Not bad." Why not say: "I'm doing
great." Think about it for a second. Your first response
was Not Bad, or I'm okay, or so-so - or hanging in there,
or trying to get through the day - these are all negative
statements that create more negative energy and perpetuate
the negative lifestyle. Switching to the positive - to
what you want - leads to creating more positive energy
and a more positive attitude. If you actually start saying
that you're doing great - in time you'll begin to believe
it and your reality will reflect that - things will actually
improve.
So
when you're talking to other people - change your negative
statements to positive comments. If you're in a conversation
where everybody is just being negative - try saying something
positive and see what happens. Watch the response - you'll
be surprised at some of the things that happen. Some people
may think your crazy - but a lot of people will actually
start to see things differently. You'll actually get them
to stop being so negative - and without knowing it - those
very same people will begin looking at things in a more
positive way. This may not happen the first time, and
it may not happen all the time - but the more you do it
- the more often you'll get them to focus on the positive
events.
This
is one of the things I encourage in the Creating Power
system - focusing on the positive but also communicating.
Creating Power shows you how to train your mind to focus
on the positive so that you always send the right messages
to your subconscious mind and create the life you want.
With Creating Power - you'll learn how to create a positive
lifestyle so that you enjoy living a life where everything
works and you enjoy success, happiness and much more.
Focus
on the Good Qualities
Often
people will do things to make you uneasy, upset you, anger
you - or just simply get under your skin. When this happens
- it's okay to initially react - but after you've calmed
down - look at the positive qualities in that person.
Too often we focus solely on a person's negative qualities
- and forget the good things. I've actually had people
tell me that they can't think of anything nice about their
co-workers, bosses, mother in-law, etc. This is a little
hard to believe and what it shows is that the person is
so caught up in living a negative lifestyle they can't
see anything positive in anyone. It's like living in darkness
for so long that now they forgot what impact light could
have.
By
looking at the positive you get your mind to shift it's
attention - it now begins to see things differently and
thus sends a different message and different energy to
your subconscious. This new positive energy and positive
message is picked up by your subconscious, your spirit
and your higher power - they all bring positive situations
to you. It's that old saying: "what goes around comes
around." You focus on the positive in other people
and other people will see the positive qualities in you.
You focus on the good things in other people, and other
people will see the good things in you and you'll attract
positive situations in your life.
I'm
not asking you to be a doormat and I'm not asking you
to simply look at the positive qualities when someone
is being unkind to you. Instead, I'm suggesting that you
take a look at the positive qualities in addition to everything
else. Don't neglect the positive qualities that a person
has. Here's an example: Let's say you're taking your son
or daughter to a basketball game. You're in the line and
the guy behind you, who is also with his child, starts
pushing. You ask him to back off and he gets angry - perhaps
starts yelling and screaming - all of this is taking place
in front of your child and his child. Finally things calm
down - you go to your seat and he goes to his. Perhaps
you're still angry and silently cursing him as you sit
in your chair. But can you see anything positive in that
person? Most people would say no. But at least he was
trying to spend some time with his kid. At least he took
time out of his schedule, just like you did and took his
kid to a game - just like you did. You don't know anything
else about the person - but you just found some positive
qualities.
When
you do this you also release the anger and unhappiness
- because you get your mind to focus on something positive
instead of something negative - thus creating more positive
energy. Try doing this with people you know and don't
know.
Creating
positive energy is crucial to your success and happiness.
Let's face it - you certainly don't want negative energy
or a negative lifestyle. With Creating Power you'll learn
how to do this and much more. The techniques, exercises
and methods are simple and easy to use. Creating Power
shows you how to focus on the positive and get the most
out of life.
Encourage
the Positive
Another
thing you can do is to be encouraging and positive - not
just when you're talking to people - but go the extra
distance to help someone out when you can. Offer encouragement
when people have questions or concerns. Instead of shooting
somebody down, or sharply criticizing them - take the
high road - and see how much more of an impact a few words
of encouragement will help. Listen to what people say
and try to offer a positive suggestion to help in their
situation.
When
you do this you get your mind to go in a positive direction
- which in turn will attract more positive situations
- and you also back it up with action. It doesn't hurt
to help people when they need a hand, a few words of encouragement
will go a lot further than some harsh criticism.
Begin
to see the positive aspects in other people by first focusing
on your positive qualities. Creating Power shows you how
to do both and it shows you how to send the right messages
to your subconscious mind so that you create the life
you want. Start working with Creating Power today and
begin creating a positive lifestyle so that you enjoy
the life you want.
Try
Smiling
Finally,
try smiling. It's actually a lot easier than frowning.
It's true. Researcher and scientists have found that you
actually use fewer muscles to smile than you do when you
frown. Try smiling more and you'll actually start to feel
better. Take some time to laugh at yourself and at things
you find funny. Be a kid every once in a while - don't
take things too seriously - after all having fun frees
the soul and eases the mind. Do things you enjoy and you'll
start creating a positive lifestyle.
These
are just some of the things you could do to start living
a positive lifestyle and attract more positive energy
into your life. Once you start doing some of the things
I just outlined life will start to move at a more positive,
fluid pace - and there won't be as many bumps along the
road. When you work with my 7-Day E-course you'll learn
how to live a positive lifestyle and you'll train your
mind to send the right messages to your subconscious so
that you get results and start enjoying the life you want.
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